The meeting that changed everything


Hi friend,

Last time, I told you about the moment I knew I had to write this book.

Today, I want to tell you about the meeting that taught me why it mattered.

Picture this: I'm sitting in a conference room with seven people. We're stuck. We have operational issues, tensions are high, and everyone's looking to me—the leader—to fix it.

So I do what most leaders do. I talk. I direct. I make decisions.

And I watch the room go quiet. Not the good kind of quiet—the kind where people check out, nod politely, and wait for the meeting to end so they can vent in the hallway.

That's when it hit me: I wasn't leading that room. I was controlling it.

And control kills collaboration.

That was one of many failures that became my teacher. It pushed me to figure out what I was missing—and what I discovered changed how I led every meeting after that.

I learned that great leaders don't dominate the room. They orchestrate it.

They read the room, the emotional energy in it, and not just the agenda. They create space for every voice, and make room for uncomfortable truths. They turn tension into momentum instead of shutting it down.

This is what The Meeting Room teaches—not just what to do, but how to see what's really happening in the room.

Because here's the truth: if you can lead a meeting well, you can lead anything.

Next time, I'll introduce you to the six people who showed up in every meeting I ever led (and probably yours, too).

Until then,

P.S. Here’s the Amazon link to my book: https://a.co/d/1QpVuFi

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ReThought LLC

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